2 yrs
I think it’s today…or was it yesterday? lol
I seriously don’t know when the real date it. We met online one Jan. 13, 2010. We didn’t have feelings for each other then and with our story, we never really knew what we are until…well…until now. We have strong feelings for each other and neither of us is talking to anyone else, so we’re basically the unlabeled couple. With that, we have decided to use our first chat as our anniversary. Even then, I still don’t know which of the actual date is our anniversary, is it 12 or 13 lol.
He called me last night and said, “Happy Anniversary, baby!” But, he knows that I consider ours on the 13th. But thinking about it, yes, we first talked on the 13…but that’s EST time, ha! I don’t remember if it was already past midnight his time, so technically, it could be the 12th for him lol. Well anyways, nothing biggie, I just thought about it.
We don’t have any gifts or anything to each other. This year, I didn’t even make any special vid or anything. We just talked quickly last night and then he called again this morning (5:30am EST). We skyped, but I was falling asleep already. It was nothing special, but still nice. It’s him :)
Lately, we have been planning to meet for the first time by the end of March/beg. of April. He always plan something, but never falls through, so I don’t really take it all seriously anymore lol. When the time comes, it comes. No rush. He can do his thing, I do my thing and at the end of the day, we have each other. I’m actually surprised we lasted this long. With all the crap we went through, we’re still here.
It’s great having someone you care for and returns that feeling. I love having someone I can laugh with and carry all sorts of conversation with. I learn so much from him and his positive personality. I can’t wait for the day when I can actually touch him, feel him, hug him, kiss him…just be with him. LDRs are most definitely hard, but when you’re with the right one, it makes it all worth it.